Series · 5 lessons · 22 June 2026

Asking Better Questions - The Art of Elicitation

A stakeholder once asked me for a faster horse. I am being slightly unfair to him, because he did not use those words. What he said was that the monthly…

  1. Day 1 · 5 min read

    The first answer is almost never the real one

    A stakeholder once asked me for a faster horse. I am being slightly unfair to him, because he did not use those words. What he said was that the monthly…

  2. Day 2 · 5 min read

    Not All Questions Are Equal

    The fastest way to ruin a discovery session is to start it with a good closed question. I mean that. Not a bad question. A good one, clear and specific and…

  3. Day 3 · 5 min read

    Reaching the knowledge stakeholders cannot reach themselves

    The most valuable thing a stakeholder knows is usually the thing they will never think to tell you. Not because they are hiding it, but because they have…

  4. Day 4 · 5 min read

    Facilitation, and how to stop a workshop becoming noise

    A room does not want to give you answers. Left to itself, a room wants to ramble, defer, and let the loudest person win. This is not because people are…

  5. Day 5 · 4 min read

    Your Elicitation Playbook

    The whole week on one page you can keep beside you

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